How to Seduce at the Office: 10 Tips for Dating Colleagues at Work @ Chandler | Friday, May 21, 2021 | 5 minutes read | Update at Friday, May 21, 2021

Without Getting Fired

Office-born stories are very common and make a lot of sense. You see the same people day in and day out , so you build very solid and trusting relationships with your coworkers.

Ending up in a relationship with a co-worker at work is a pretty natural thing.

But… some guys just don’t know how to do it.

They see the same girl in the office every day, have short, boring conversations and do nothing to create attraction and intensify the relationship. Office-born stories are very common and make a lot of sense

By the time you make up your mind to make your move, the hottie on duty is either already sleeping with the company jerk, the boss or sleeping with someone else outside the office.

So I want to make sure this doesn’t happen to you and teach you how to seduce in the office.

Before we get into the details I want to go over a few things you shouldn’t do.

How to Seduce at the Office - What Not to Do

  1. Don’t act weird in the office - the office can be a very difficult place to go every day once you have been labeled a certain way and that label, once acquired, will probably stay with you until you change jobs. If girls think you’re weird this will also work to your disadvantage when a new girl starts working there.

  2. Be careful, it can get awkward - if you do something the girl doesn’t like, it will become awkward for both of you every time you see each other at work. It’s not a pleasant thing so take it easy buddy!

  3. Don’t persevere, you might get in trouble - perseverance pays off (but not at work). You have time on your side so don’t rush things.

Working with a Girl You Know Very Well

If you work for a small company and you see this girl all the time, then you should follow these tips:

  1. Show how charming your personality is (be playful and use your imagination) show the sides that other guys wouldn’t let out at work. It will make you jump to the first place among the various male colleagues she might have in her thoughts. Send her some nice messages, “Hey stop sending me Candy Crush requests, I’m trying to work here..” or “stop using Facebook so much, the boss won’t be happy about it at all..”

  2. Don’t be sexual, tease and tease her in a playful way and watch how she reacts.

  3. If she doesn’t react well, slow things down so you won’t be accused of being a weirdo or even harassing her. It could be that she’s already dating someone (which should be easy enough to find out).

  4. Try to be creative by using like role-plays. For example you could tell her “you need to immediately report to Michelle in HR, you need to book a week or two of vacation, we’re going to the Maldives! Pack your bags!”

You’ll see that she’ll start thinking of you romantically rather than just as an office colleague.

  1. Have small, short conversations, ask her what she has planned for the weekend. On Fridays ask her what she is doing on the weekend for example, these short conversations will help you transition to more interesting things.

How to Seduce in the Office of a Large Company When You See a Girl You Don’t Know

If you work for a huge company and see a girl you like around use these tips to seduce in the office:

  • Option 1: Be light and playful, for example, interview her in a playful way. Be confident and keep her from saying, “Wait! What department do you work in? What’s your name? Okay and what project do you work on?” - Do it like you’re the boss and be authoritative. She won’t know who you are and the next time you talk to her you can introduce yourself and tell her you were just messing with her a little.

  • Option 2: Do it gradually, first a nod, then say good morning, then chat a bit. Make sure you stretch the broth a little bit as you go each time you see her. Over time she will get used to you and think of you. You should be able to tell if she is interested in you at some point. For example, does she run away every time you talk to her? Does she give you indicators of interest such as the fact that she smiles a lot? Does she start talking when she sees you? These questions are important when your goal is to seduce in the office.

It’s Time to Date

So you’ve established a nice relationship with her, you’ve read between the lines that there’s interest from her and you want to ask her out. Here’s how to do it

  1. You can play it safe and ask her to go out to lunch together, or even invite a few colleagues from the office if it’s evening. She’s more likely to accept that way.

  2. If she’s comfortable with you, invite her out…. “Hey! There’s a new wine bar nearby, we should hit it up on Friday” - obviously this is a more direct approach, but if the signals she gives you are all more or less green, then go for it.

That’s it… a decalogue on how to seduce in the office one or more female co-workers, let me know in the comments below how it went for you putting them into practice…

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