Lady ladymarshmallow, love is sweet!Dating should be easy and fun, even after the Covid

How to Make a Beautiful Woman Your Own: Tips and Techniques to Use

Wednesday, Oct 20, 2021

Attractive women exist in re, even the perfect and ideal ones, the ones you generally see only on television or at fashion shows.

They always surprise us because you guys notice them without them doing anything to be noticed, and anytime you look at them, they will always be in a correct and sensual position or attitude, never vulgar and never inappropriate, and if they make us lose our patience, they make you lose your brain.

@ Chandler
2 minutes read

Figuring out if a Girl Wants to See You Again - 7 Subtle Signs

Monday, Sep 27, 2021

Some guys find it difficult to interpret women, which is understandable… girls don’t send clear signals of interest and attraction like guys do so you need to work hard to improve your ability to tell if a girl wants you.

7 Subtle Signs to Know If a Girl Wants to See You Again

Both during your first date with a girl and afterwards it is very easy to question your actions. Usually these are the things you will rethink:

  • She seemed somewhat touchy-feely, but did she like me? Or maybe she was just trying to be affable and polite!
  • She said “I’ll see you soon…” but was she snubbing me or was that really what she meant?
  • She got a call during our date and then told me she had to go, that’s clearly a bad sign right?!!!

The first thing you need to do is stay calm.

Okay, so now that you’ve calmed down, let’s review all the most important signs to consider to understand if a girl wants you and also if she wants to see you again, signs that you absolutely must be able to interpret.

7 Subtle Signs to Know If a Girl Wants to See You Again

@ Chandler
5 minutes read

Power Corrupts (Women)

Thursday, Sep 2, 2021

Most men do a crazy thing as soon as they deal with a beautiful woman - they give away all their power and status and become just another strain. We’ve all done the same - we chase her, we change our plans to go along with her schedule, we abandon our interests and friends. Rather than keeping the things that make us attractive, we take everything for granted and focus all our attention on the woman. And this is what most tempts women to abandon us.

This is not the way to do things.

model of an attractive ma


Since we are the males and the hunters, women should not be bored. Women like to be always like in a challenge. They want to work for a man. They don’t want to think that everything is handed to them on a silver platter. They want a challenge. A woman wants a manly, masculine man and not someone who begs for them. Unfortunately, modern Men are less attractive because they don’t have those manly qualities as much.

These are the rules you need to “manufacture” your own model of an attractive man:

@ Chandler
3 minutes read

Approaching Girls the Right Way: 3 Successful Approach Secrets

Monday, Aug 9, 2021

Still stuck on figuring out how to approach girls?

No problem, I’ve pretty much made this aspect of seduction a science by now… since the initial approach is probably the most important part of the entire interaction.

So it makes sense to master this part thoroughly first.

Still stuck on figuring out how to approach girls

If you suffer from approach anxiety, then you need to learn how to control it before hitting on a girl, otherwise you’ll look like an insecure man, and in no time you’ll be done.

Before I tell you the 3 secrets of approaching girls… I want to give you a good and bad example of a typical approach, this can be used in most situations (day, night, clubs etc).

@ Chandler
4 minutes read

Friends You Should Not Date While Picking Up: 7 Guys Who Will Ruin Your Game And Not Make You Better

Monday, Jul 12, 2021

Friends are a great thing when it comes to going out to pick up a girl right?

Your best friend just ruined your double date because he started talking about how much he misses his ex! What the heck? Ok it’s no big deal! He’s your friend … you can forgive him, right?

Your best friend just ruined your double date because he started talking about how much he misses his ex

Um ok! What about the time he took his girlfriend to a guys' night out because his girlfriend complained about not spending time with him … or the time he refused to take you on a double date because he felt like he was cheating on his girlfriend like that?

Wait a minute, this isn’t just about your best friend, how about your other friend, the one who at 21 is still a virgin and can’t do it with women and ruins any outing you can arrange? Or the other friend who complains and grumbles all the time?

  • “No man, she’s too ugly.”

  • “I’ll talk to her in a minute man, I don’t feel like it now!”

  • “Why do you always want me to take you on a double date, get someone else to do it.”

  • “I don’t feel like partying tonight, it’s raining!”

Yeah, friends are a great thing. Obviously I’ve already told you how important your social circle is for picking up and attracting women, yet there are still people who don’t understand how many opportunities they lose by surrounding themselves with the wrong people.

So, start by realizing that there are friends you shouldn’t hang out with to pick up, below is the list with the 7 types of friends that ruin your game and prevent you from getting better with women.

@ Chandler
5 minutes read

Why do women like bastards ?

Tuesday, Jun 29, 2021

You may have guessed, but we are NOT talking about the ** Motörhead album **.

We are referring to cruel men who don’t respect women. Ever.

When we talk about approaching and conquering a woman, we cannot limit the discourse to the simple pleasure or attraction of the latter: unfortunately for the stronger sex, women have more and more often and in a very high percentage clear ideas about who, how and why they should accompany them and from this we can deduce that women tend to like bastards!

that women tend to like bastards

@ Chandler
3 minutes read

How To Stop Being Abused By Women In 3 Easy Ways

Friday, Jun 25, 2021

Being too nice won’t get you anywhere….

Today I’m going to talk about the kind of person that a lot of guys seem to be these days and why it’s of such paramount importance to stop being that same person.

If you want to be successful with women you need to figure out first and foremost how to stop being treated badly by people in general, because it’s really really important.

If you’ve ever been described as “good” or “very sweet,” then there’s a good chance that one (if not all) of the points to follow are about you:

  • You allowed anyone to do anything they wanted
  • You never complained when you didn’t feel like doing something that, instead, a girl or one of your male friends wanted to do
  • People always want your help, and what’s more, they expect it immediately.
  • You shy away from confrontation, potential confrontations, and exude pathetic feelings
  • Do any of these points sound familiar?

Yes, it’s official…you’re a chicken…a doormat…a “good” guy.

you’re a chicken…a doormat…a “good” guy.

Now don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with being a good guy. I’m a good guy too, but there is something VERY wrong with always being too good.

Before I get into the crucial steps of figuring out how to stop being treated badly by women and people in general, first let me ask a couple of questions and clarifications …

@ Chandler
4 minutes read

How to Charm Women: 11 Things You Need to Know

Tuesday, Jun 15, 2021

How to fascinate women” is a question that many ask themselves, as charm and mystery are two qualities that have always exerted a very strong appeal on the fair sex, especially after getting a first date after meeting online .

How to fascinate women

Although it may be mistakenly thought that charm and beauty are two synonyms, the two adjectives do not really match completely: if beauty, in fact, refers to the** physical qualities** of a person, **charm** refers to the **bewitchment**, as if it were magic, a sort of repercussion of intelligence on manners, smiles, gestures and movements.

So charm is one of the most important components to make a girl fall in love with you.

So let’s try to understand together how to charm women.

@ Chandler
8 minutes read

Casual sex: even women are doing it for pleasure

Thursday, Jun 3, 2021

Even women throw themselves into casual sex for pure pleasure , without relational implications and on a par with their male counterparts. This is revealed by analzying a website very used in the online community in the University of Ottawa , aimed at disrupting the classic view of the female gender linked to feelings and the male gender attracted, instead, by mere physicality. A discovery perhaps not surprising, but today comes a first scientific legitimacy.

Even women throw themselves into casual sex for pure pleasure in Ottawa

@ Chandler
3 minutes read

Date more women before committing

Friday, May 21, 2021

I already know I’m going to get a lot of criticism, it’s okay. Someone has to tell you these things, I feel compelled to stir the waters of this social prison.

Date more women before committing

If you’re a woman I suggest you close this page now so you won’t be pissed off for the rest of the day. Where were we? I was explaining the common problem of the american man who, in order to make sure he gets laid all the time, for fear of being alone or because of social pressure (family, friends), runs off in search of a serious relationship hoping that “being together”, said verbally and certified by his status on Facebook, is a guarantee for a good relationship.

@ Chandler
13 minutes read

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Lady ladymarshmallow, love is sweet!Dating should be easy and fun, even after the Covid

About Me

Hi, my name is Chandler.

This is my blog about dating tips.

As you can imagine, i’m a pickup artist, i had dozen of women during the last decade.

I’ve decided to share my tips for people who need help, like myself 10 years ago.

Have a question? write me an email!

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