Some guys find it difficult to interpret women, which is understandable… girls don’t send clear signals of interest and attraction like guys do so you need to work hard to improve your ability to tell if a girl wants you.
Both during your first date with a girl and afterwards it is very easy to question your actions. Usually these are the things you will rethink:
The first thing you need to do is stay calm.
Okay, so now that you’ve calmed down, let’s review all the most important signs to consider to understand if a girl wants you and also if she wants to see you again, signs that you absolutely must be able to interpret.
Most men do a crazy thing as soon as they deal with a beautiful woman - they give away all their power and status and become just another strain. We’ve all done the same - we chase her, we change our plans to go along with her schedule, we abandon our interests and friends. Rather than keeping the things that make us attractive, we take everything for granted and focus all our attention on the woman. And this is what most tempts women to abandon us.
This is not the way to do things.
Since we are the males and the hunters, women should not be bored. Women like to be always like in a challenge. They want to work for a man. They don’t want to think that everything is handed to them on a silver platter. They want a challenge. A woman wants a manly, masculine man and not someone who begs for them. Unfortunately, modern Men are less attractive because they don’t have those manly qualities as much.
These are the rules you need to “manufacture” your own model of an attractive man:
Still stuck on figuring out how to approach girls?
No problem, I’ve pretty much made this aspect of seduction a science by now… since the initial approach is probably the most important part of the entire interaction.
So it makes sense to master this part thoroughly first.
If you suffer from approach anxiety, then you need to learn how to control it before hitting on a girl, otherwise you’ll look like an insecure man, and in no time you’ll be done.
Before I tell you the 3 secrets of approaching girls… I want to give you a good and bad example of a typical approach, this can be used in most situations (day, night, clubs etc).
Friends are a great thing when it comes to going out to pick up a girl right?
Your best friend just ruined your double date because he started talking about how much he misses his ex! What the heck? Ok it’s no big deal! He’s your friend … you can forgive him, right?
Um ok! What about the time he took his girlfriend to a guys' night out because his girlfriend complained about not spending time with him … or the time he refused to take you on a double date because he felt like he was cheating on his girlfriend like that?
Wait a minute, this isn’t just about your best friend, how about your other friend, the one who at 21 is still a virgin and can’t do it with women and ruins any outing you can arrange? Or the other friend who complains and grumbles all the time?
“No man, she’s too ugly.”
“I’ll talk to her in a minute man, I don’t feel like it now!”
“Why do you always want me to take you on a double date, get someone else to do it.”
“I don’t feel like partying tonight, it’s raining!”
Yeah, friends are a great thing. Obviously I’ve already told you how important your social circle is for picking up and attracting women, yet there are still people who don’t understand how many opportunities they lose by surrounding themselves with the wrong people.
So, start by realizing that there are friends you shouldn’t hang out with to pick up, below is the list with the 7 types of friends that ruin your game and prevent you from getting better with women.
You may have guessed, but we are NOT talking about the ** Motörhead album **.
We are referring to cruel men who don’t respect women. Ever.
When we talk about approaching and conquering a woman, we cannot limit the discourse to the simple pleasure or attraction of the latter: unfortunately for the stronger sex, women have more and more often and in a very high percentage clear ideas about who, how and why they should accompany them and from this we can deduce that women tend to like bastards!
Being too nice won’t get you anywhere….
Today I’m going to talk about the kind of person that a lot of guys seem to be these days and why it’s of such paramount importance to stop being that same person.
If you want to be successful with women you need to figure out first and foremost how to stop being treated badly by people in general, because it’s really really important.
If you’ve ever been described as “good” or “very sweet,” then there’s a good chance that one (if not all) of the points to follow are about you:
Yes, it’s official…you’re a chicken…a doormat…a “good” guy.
Now don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with being a good guy. I’m a good guy too, but there is something VERY wrong with always being too good.
Before I get into the crucial steps of figuring out how to stop being treated badly by women and people in general, first let me ask a couple of questions and clarifications …
“How to fascinate women” is a question that many ask themselves, as charm and mystery are two qualities that have always exerted a very strong appeal on the fair sex, especially after getting a first date after meeting online .
Although it may be mistakenly thought that charm and beauty are two synonyms, the two adjectives do not really match completely: if beauty, in fact, refers to the** physical qualities** of a person, **charm** refers to the **bewitchment**, as if it were magic, a sort of repercussion of intelligence on manners, smiles, gestures and movements.
So charm is one of the most important components to make a girl fall in love with you.
So let’s try to understand together how to charm women.
Even women throw themselves into casual sex for pure pleasure , without relational implications and on a par with their male counterparts. This is revealed by analzying a website very used in the online community in the University of Ottawa , aimed at disrupting the classic view of the female gender linked to feelings and the male gender attracted, instead, by mere physicality. A discovery perhaps not surprising, but today comes a first scientific legitimacy.
I already know I’m going to get a lot of criticism, it’s okay. Someone has to tell you these things, I feel compelled to stir the waters of this social prison.
If you’re a woman I suggest you close this page now so you won’t be pissed off for the rest of the day. Where were we? I was explaining the common problem of the american man who, in order to make sure he gets laid all the time, for fear of being alone or because of social pressure (family, friends), runs off in search of a serious relationship hoping that “being together”, said verbally and certified by his status on Facebook, is a guarantee for a good relationship.
…Without Getting Fired
Office-born stories are very common and make a lot of sense. You see the same people day in and day out , so you build very solid and trusting relationships with your coworkers.
Ending up in a relationship with a co-worker at work is a pretty natural thing.
But… some guys just don’t know how to do it.
They see the same girl in the office every day, have short, boring conversations and do nothing to create attraction and intensify the relationship.
By the time you make up your mind to make your move, the hottie on duty is either already sleeping with the company jerk, the boss or sleeping with someone else outside the office.
So I want to make sure this doesn’t happen to you and teach you how to seduce in the office.
Before we get into the details I want to go over a few things you shouldn’t do.
Hi, my name is Chandler.
This is my blog about dating tips.
As you can imagine, i’m a pickup artist, i had dozen of women during the last decade.
I’ve decided to share my tips for people who need help, like myself 10 years ago.
Have a question? write me an email!